Friday, October 14, 2016
But all is not sweetness and light....
Hello, friends.
Most of my writings are meant to be encouraging thoughts around the little, but oftentimes missed, blessings of each day. They are light hearted, and that is intentional. Who wants to read about the downers of life? But there IS that other side of life. The pain-filled side, the devastated-to-my-very-being side. And that very real side of life is what I'd like to share over the next several days.
There is nothing that will tear your heart apart, bring you to a point of raw emotion and pain, like the loss of a loved one. Experts say that there is nothing more painful than the loss of a child. The experts are right. There is no preparation, no provision, and no knowledge, to make you ready for the loss. If there were, the Lord knows, I would have done it.
It's been three years since that God-awful day we got the call. It started out being a fun day. We were having a beach party with some of our closest friends. I was making fresh salsa, for the first time. My husband had taken the dog to the groomer. And when the phone rang, I assumed it was our friends saying they would be a little late. But that was not the case. This call was different. This was the call all parents pray they never have to answer. And this call would be the one that would change our lives forever.
Most of my writings are meant to be encouraging thoughts around the little, but oftentimes missed, blessings of each day. They are light hearted, and that is intentional. Who wants to read about the downers of life? But there IS that other side of life. The pain-filled side, the devastated-to-my-very-being side. And that very real side of life is what I'd like to share over the next several days.
There is nothing that will tear your heart apart, bring you to a point of raw emotion and pain, like the loss of a loved one. Experts say that there is nothing more painful than the loss of a child. The experts are right. There is no preparation, no provision, and no knowledge, to make you ready for the loss. If there were, the Lord knows, I would have done it.
It's been three years since that God-awful day we got the call. It started out being a fun day. We were having a beach party with some of our closest friends. I was making fresh salsa, for the first time. My husband had taken the dog to the groomer. And when the phone rang, I assumed it was our friends saying they would be a little late. But that was not the case. This call was different. This was the call all parents pray they never have to answer. And this call would be the one that would change our lives forever.
Monday, October 3, 2016
Walmart - A New Perspective
Good morning!
So today I'd like to share my thoughts on Walmart. I used to absolutely hate going to Walmart! I went with a grudge, if at all. One day, as I was having bad thoughts about my local Walmart, the Lord spoke to my heart: "Really look at the people, and what do you see?" Hmmm, I wonder what that's supposed to mean? But I did begin to really look at the people, and as my focus changed, so did my heart.
I saw a very poor woman, deathly thin, with mismatched socks and outfit, and bruises on her very skinny legs. Then I looked again, and noticed a beautiful radiance on her face as she smiled at me. And my perception changed. And I noticed the famous "Walmart Greeter," with his booming voice and cheery attitude, saying, "Welcome to Walmart! Hope you're having a great day!" And I smiled back, wishing him the same, and I meant it! Then there is the girl in the produce section, kind of scowling, ya know? But she had a beautiful face and her makeup was always perfect (if a tad too much, but nobody gets everything right😁)! And I spoke to her, and said, "I noticed how pretty you always look, and you always have your make-up on, and take such good care of yourself, it's so nice to see!" Her face lit up like a lightbulb, and she thanked me, and her countenance changed as she stacked her grapes with a little more zeal and a smile on her face. And the check-out woman, she did such a nice job of packing my things and getting me through the line quickly that I mentioned it to her, and she also smiled sheepishly. And all of this happened in just one visit.
And as the changes in the folks I met took place, my attitude began to change, also. And now, Walmart has become a place to encourage people, along with buying the things I need, and as I give out to others, so much more comes back to me. Maybe, just maybe, I will make some new friends! So here's to The People of Walmart! Thank You, Lord, for changing me......
So today I'd like to share my thoughts on Walmart. I used to absolutely hate going to Walmart! I went with a grudge, if at all. One day, as I was having bad thoughts about my local Walmart, the Lord spoke to my heart: "Really look at the people, and what do you see?" Hmmm, I wonder what that's supposed to mean? But I did begin to really look at the people, and as my focus changed, so did my heart.
I saw a very poor woman, deathly thin, with mismatched socks and outfit, and bruises on her very skinny legs. Then I looked again, and noticed a beautiful radiance on her face as she smiled at me. And my perception changed. And I noticed the famous "Walmart Greeter," with his booming voice and cheery attitude, saying, "Welcome to Walmart! Hope you're having a great day!" And I smiled back, wishing him the same, and I meant it! Then there is the girl in the produce section, kind of scowling, ya know? But she had a beautiful face and her makeup was always perfect (if a tad too much, but nobody gets everything right😁)! And I spoke to her, and said, "I noticed how pretty you always look, and you always have your make-up on, and take such good care of yourself, it's so nice to see!" Her face lit up like a lightbulb, and she thanked me, and her countenance changed as she stacked her grapes with a little more zeal and a smile on her face. And the check-out woman, she did such a nice job of packing my things and getting me through the line quickly that I mentioned it to her, and she also smiled sheepishly. And all of this happened in just one visit.
And as the changes in the folks I met took place, my attitude began to change, also. And now, Walmart has become a place to encourage people, along with buying the things I need, and as I give out to others, so much more comes back to me. Maybe, just maybe, I will make some new friends! So here's to The People of Walmart! Thank You, Lord, for changing me......
Sunday, October 2, 2016
The Little Things
Good morning!
And a beautiful morning it is. Several days of rain have washed things clean and fresh. Our beautiful, tempestuous Lake Erie is settling down after days of big waves and lovely surf. How I love sitting in my chair, looking out over the lake, and spending time with the Lord and in His Word. Soon there will be a fire in the fireplace as I sit and drink my morning coffee. But let's not rush that!
I am a dreamer and a planner. Give her a goal and watch her go! Nothing ignites me more than having a goal; I am not sure why but that's how I am wired. Sometimes I must admit I get so caught up in the going-after that I nearly leave The One Who is the Greatest Planner (who could create a universe without a plan?) behind as I rush on to-I'm not really sure where. Kind of like seeing the home you want, then building it without a blueprint. Oh foolish me!
So for now, The Great Planner has me in a period of rest. This should be good news, but for those of us "doers," it is a most uncomfortable place. The where's and why's and when's that overtake my thoughts will surely crowd out the peace and joy of this day, if I choose that path. And just think what I would miss - the lovely moments of this very day. My Daisy curled up next to me, the taste and smell of that wonderful cup of coffee that I so dearly love, the friends and family that I have the privilege of knowing and having in my life. And the love of my soulmate, who knows me and loves me just as I am. Such precious gifts, and if I don't choose well, I could miss out on all of these amazing blessings! So for today, I will follow the path that the Lord has for me. And His instruction would be, this: "I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live;”
Deuteronomy 30:19 NKJV.
And a beautiful morning it is. Several days of rain have washed things clean and fresh. Our beautiful, tempestuous Lake Erie is settling down after days of big waves and lovely surf. How I love sitting in my chair, looking out over the lake, and spending time with the Lord and in His Word. Soon there will be a fire in the fireplace as I sit and drink my morning coffee. But let's not rush that!
I am a dreamer and a planner. Give her a goal and watch her go! Nothing ignites me more than having a goal; I am not sure why but that's how I am wired. Sometimes I must admit I get so caught up in the going-after that I nearly leave The One Who is the Greatest Planner (who could create a universe without a plan?) behind as I rush on to-I'm not really sure where. Kind of like seeing the home you want, then building it without a blueprint. Oh foolish me!
So for now, The Great Planner has me in a period of rest. This should be good news, but for those of us "doers," it is a most uncomfortable place. The where's and why's and when's that overtake my thoughts will surely crowd out the peace and joy of this day, if I choose that path. And just think what I would miss - the lovely moments of this very day. My Daisy curled up next to me, the taste and smell of that wonderful cup of coffee that I so dearly love, the friends and family that I have the privilege of knowing and having in my life. And the love of my soulmate, who knows me and loves me just as I am. Such precious gifts, and if I don't choose well, I could miss out on all of these amazing blessings! So for today, I will follow the path that the Lord has for me. And His instruction would be, this: "I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live;”
Deuteronomy 30:19 NKJV.
Friday, September 30, 2016
Wow, I can't believe I am again writing in my blog! If anyone reads this, thank you for taking the time. I stopped writing a few years back, wondering if I had anything even worth sharing. But several people recently have mentioned reading my little blog, and that maybe lives were touched, and so perhaps it is time to start anew.
Lots has happened over these past few years, some good and some not so good, actually incredibly, devastatingly painful, but more on that later. Time keeps marching on, that is a true statement. And I find myself asking lots of questions about...well, many things. As I speak with a variety of people, I realize that each of us has a story to tell. And for me, each of the stories are divided into chapters. And each chapter has a beginning and an end. But what about in between? So for example, one chapter closes, but nothing of significance happens, and the "next chapter" is placed on hold. Or maybe it isn't, maybe I just need to look at it differently. Actually many things have happened in the past year or so, new things, fresh things, important things. But we can grow weary in the day-to-day of life, if we are not careful. And so today, I will stay "in today," and be thankful for the many beautiful things I have in my life. And one day I will likely look back and realize that my new chapter had already started. And it will be good, because the Lord is good, and He has promised us good and not bad, to give us a future and a hope. Again, thanks for listening, for it's good to be writing again.
Lots has happened over these past few years, some good and some not so good, actually incredibly, devastatingly painful, but more on that later. Time keeps marching on, that is a true statement. And I find myself asking lots of questions about...well, many things. As I speak with a variety of people, I realize that each of us has a story to tell. And for me, each of the stories are divided into chapters. And each chapter has a beginning and an end. But what about in between? So for example, one chapter closes, but nothing of significance happens, and the "next chapter" is placed on hold. Or maybe it isn't, maybe I just need to look at it differently. Actually many things have happened in the past year or so, new things, fresh things, important things. But we can grow weary in the day-to-day of life, if we are not careful. And so today, I will stay "in today," and be thankful for the many beautiful things I have in my life. And one day I will likely look back and realize that my new chapter had already started. And it will be good, because the Lord is good, and He has promised us good and not bad, to give us a future and a hope. Again, thanks for listening, for it's good to be writing again.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
A Restful Place
Hello!
Well, it has been awhile since my last entry. You see I have been on a journey, a wonderful journey, a new adventure, a journey to find rest for my soul. And for me, who always has a plan, and who then strives to make sure I achieve that plan, this place of rest is new and I must say, rather wonderful!
Now when I say rest, I am not talking about sitting all day, watching TV and eating ice cream. Oh no, this is a much better place than that! For this is an internal rest, a place where my soul, my most inward part, my very being, is at peace. It is not striving to know what is coming next, nor how I will make something happen, nor, in my not-so-becoming competitive self, making sure that I am The Best "whatever", comparing myself to others in an array of ways. No it is definitely not that, but it is other than that. It is higher than that. And it is infinitely better than that. It is untouched by others, a place to "hunker down" and have peace even in this midst of chaos. It is a gift, a blessing, a wonder. It is the rest that only the Lord can give.
"Thus says the Lord: Stand by the roads and look; and ask for the eternal paths, where the good, old way is; then walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. (Jeremiah 6:16)"
And so today, as all of the many things that pull at me for my attention and try to ruffle me and tempt me to go back to that stressful place, I will choose another path, the tried and true eternal path, where the good, old way is, and walk in it. For this is a priceless gift, a hidden treasure, a delight to my very being. May you have a wonderful, restful day!
Well, it has been awhile since my last entry. You see I have been on a journey, a wonderful journey, a new adventure, a journey to find rest for my soul. And for me, who always has a plan, and who then strives to make sure I achieve that plan, this place of rest is new and I must say, rather wonderful!
Now when I say rest, I am not talking about sitting all day, watching TV and eating ice cream. Oh no, this is a much better place than that! For this is an internal rest, a place where my soul, my most inward part, my very being, is at peace. It is not striving to know what is coming next, nor how I will make something happen, nor, in my not-so-becoming competitive self, making sure that I am The Best "whatever", comparing myself to others in an array of ways. No it is definitely not that, but it is other than that. It is higher than that. And it is infinitely better than that. It is untouched by others, a place to "hunker down" and have peace even in this midst of chaos. It is a gift, a blessing, a wonder. It is the rest that only the Lord can give.
"Thus says the Lord: Stand by the roads and look; and ask for the eternal paths, where the good, old way is; then walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. (Jeremiah 6:16)"
And so today, as all of the many things that pull at me for my attention and try to ruffle me and tempt me to go back to that stressful place, I will choose another path, the tried and true eternal path, where the good, old way is, and walk in it. For this is a priceless gift, a hidden treasure, a delight to my very being. May you have a wonderful, restful day!
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